Che bello! (How nice!) – Someone’s just paid you a genuine compliment, lifting your spirits higher than the dome of St Peter’s! Because that’s the magic of compliments – they’re like little shots of espresso for the soul, making you feel seen, appreciated, and valued. From applauding your friend’s fashion flair to acknowledging a coworker’s brilliant idea, or appreciating a stranger’s infectious laughter, compliments have this amazing ability to spread joy and forge connections.
So, to enhance your praise repertoire, I’ve gathered a collection of the most common compliments in Italian so you can sprinkle some amore (love) in any situation. I’ve also included the appropriate responses for when you are on the receiving end of a compliment. Be sure to stick around until the very end for some helpful tips on avoiding common blunders when giving compliments in Italian – you won’t want to miss that!
Just a heads up: the examples below use the Italian informal address (“tu”), but you can totally switch it up to the formal style (“Lei”) if the situation calls for it. Just use the third person instead of the second singular (for example, Lei è davvero gentile instead of Sei davvero gentile).
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Table to Contents
Here’s what we’ll cover in this guide. Click on any title to jump to each section.
- How to say you are beautiful in Italian
- How to compliment someone on their work
- How to compliment someone on their appearance or clothing in Italian
- How to compliment someone on their personality or lifestyle in Italian
- How to compliment someone on something they have
- How to respond to compliments in Italian
- The do’s and don’ts of complimenting someone in Italian
How to say you are beautiful in Italian
If you want to compliment a friend’s appearance, charm your Italian amore (love), or simply get downright flirtatious in the right company, this section has you covered.
While you might already be familiar with the classic bello/a and bellissimo/a (beautiful), Italian offers a rich variety of expressions to capture someone’s beauty. Just refer to the context column in the table below to know which ones are okay to use with friends and which ones are best saved for romantic rendezvous.
Saying you’re beautiful in Italian | ||
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English | Italian | Pronunciation |
How beautiful/handsome you are | Come sei bella/o | koh-meh say bel-lah/loh |
You have beautiful eyes | Hai degli occhi stupendi | aiee de-lye ok-kee stoo-pen-dee |
You have a beautiful smile | Hai un bellissimo sorriso | aiee uhn bel-lee-see-moh soh-ree-soh |
You are unbelievably beautiful/handsome | Mi piaci da morire | mee pyah-chee dah moh-ree-reh |
How pretty you are | Ma come siamo carine/i | mah koh-meh syah-moh kah-ree-neh/nee |
You drive me crazy | Mi fai impazzire | mee fai eem-pa-tzee-reh |
I like your eyes, I get lost in them | Mi piacciono i tuoi occhi, mi ci perdo | mee pyah-choh-noh ee twoi ohk-kee, mee chee pehr-doh |
I could look at you all day | Potrei guardarti per tutto il giorno | poh-trey gwar-dahr-tee pehr toot-toh eel jor-noh |
You are so sensual | Sei così sensuale | say koh-zee sen-soo-ah-leh |
You are beautiful/handsome | Sei bella/o | say be-lah/loh |
Sei bellissima/o | say beh-lee-see-mah/moh | |
You are so sexy | Sei così sexy | say koh-zee sex-ee |
You leave me breathless | Sei da togliere il fiato | say dah toh-lyeh-reh eel fyah-toh |
You are enchanting | Sei incantevole | say een-kahn-teh-voh-leh |
You are so cute | Sei così carina/o | say koh-zee kah-ree-nah/noh |
You are breathtaking | Sei mozzafiato | say moh-tsa-fyah-toh |
You are perfect | Sei perfetta/o | say pair-feh-tah/toh |
You are such a charm | Sei un incanto | say oon een-kahn-toh |
You are so cool | Sei un gran figo/una gran figa | say oon grahn fee-go/oo-na grahn fee-gah |
You are a dream | Sei un sogno | say oon sohn-yo |
You are marvelous | Sei una meraviglia | say oo-nuh meh-rah-vee-lyah |
You are such a beauty | Sei uno splendore | say oo-noh splehn-doh-reh |
You are a vision | Sei una visione | say oo-nah veez-yoh-neh |
You are a knockout | Sei uno schianto | say oo-noh skyan-toh |
You are a stunner | Sei uno spettacolo | say oo-no speh-tah-koh-loh |
You look gorgeous | Sei stupenda/o | say stoo-pen-dah/doh |
You are so breathtakingly beautiful/handsome | Sei talmente bella/o da togliere il fiato | say tal-men-tey bel-lah/loh da toh-lyeh-re eel fya-toh |
What a hunk! | Che fusto! | keh foo-stoh |
When it comes to flirting and showing someone you’re interested in them, you could keep it simple with a classic like Sei bellissima/o (You’re beautiful), or go for something more dramatic like Sei mozzafiato (You’re breathtaking) or Sei talmente bella/o da togliere il fiato (You’re so breathtakingly beautiful/handsome). Feeling bold? Try Mi piaci da morire (You’re unbelievably beautiful/handsome) or Mi fai impazzire (You drive me crazy) to really make them swoon with your admiration.
To get specific and tell them exactly what you find beautiful about them, try compliments like Sei bellissima/o quando ridi (You’re beautiful when you smile), Hai degli occhi stupendi (You have beautiful eyes), or Hai un bellissimo sorriso (You have a beautiful smile). And who could resist being told, Mi piacciono i tuoi occhi, mi ci perdo (I like your eyes, I get lost in them) or Potrei guardarti per tutto il giorno (I could look at you all day) to convey your endless fascination?
Then, there are those compliments that can be used in different situations, like Sei uno schianto (You’re a real knockout), which can work wonders whether you’re praising a friend’s fabulousness or your sweetheart’s allure. The same goes with phrases like Sei stupenda (You look gorgeous), Sei uno spettacolo (You’re a stunner), Sei un incanto (You’re such a charm), Sei uno schianto (You are a knockout). For a more playful vibe, among close friends or youngsters, you could say Sei un gran figo/una gran figa (You’re so cool)).
But what about complimenting little kids? They’re adorable too, right? To let them know how cute they are, you could say something like Ma come siamo carine/i (How pretty you are) or Sei così carino/a (You’re so cute).
And hey, if you’re with your grandma at the market and she spots a dashing gent, you might hear her whisper “What a hunk” (Che fusto)! It’s a bit old-school, but it never fails to hit the mark!
How to compliment someone on their work
So, you’re at work, and that Italian colleague of yours just aced a project. Sure, you could go for the usual “Great job,” but imagine the delight on their face when you acknowledge their achievement in their native tongue. Not only does it show appreciation for their hard work, but it also demonstrates a genuine effort to connect on a deeper level.
Below are some fantastic expressions to use when you want to compliment someone in Italian about their work or in a work setting. If the situation allows, throw in a playful Mamma mia! and watch your colleague’s smile grow even wider!
Complimenting a job well done in Italian | ||
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English | Italian | Pronunciation |
Come on! | Forza! | for-tsah |
Compliments! | Complimenti! | kohm-plee-mehn-tee |
Congratulations! | Congratulazioni! | kohn-grah-too-lah-tsyoh-nee |
Great idea! | Ottima idea! | aw-tee-mah ee-deh-ah |
Good job! | Bel lavoro! | bell lah-voh-roh |
Great job! | Ottimo lavoro! | oh-tee-moh lah-voh-roh |
Grande! (slang) | grahn-deh | |
Hats off to you! | Tanto di cappello! | tahn-toh dee kah-pehl-loh |
I believe in you | Credo in te | kreh-doh een teh |
I knew you would succeed | Sapevo che ci saresti riuscito/a | sah-peh-voh keh chee sah-reh-stee ree-oo-shee-toh/tah |
I’m sure you will do great things | Sono sicura/o che farai grandi cose | soh-noh see-koo-rah/roh keh fah-ry grahn-dee koh-seh |
Keep it up! | Continua così! | kohn-tee-noo-ah koh-zee |
Well done! | Ben fatto! | behn fah-toh |
Bravo/a! | brah-voh/vah | |
Bravissimo/a! | brah-vees-see-moh/mah | |
Che bravo/a! | keh brah-voh/vah | |
How nice! | Che bello! | keh beh-loh |
This is how it’s done | Così si fa! | koh-zee see fah |
You are so talented | Hai talento | aiee tah-lehn-toh |
You are a capable person | Sei davvero in gamba | say dah-veh-roh een gahm-bah |
You have excelled yourself | Hai superato te stesso/a | aiee soo-peh-ra-toh teh stehs-soh/sah |
Your contribution has been valuable | Il tuo contributo è stato prezioso | eel too-oh kon-tree-boo-toh eh stah-toh preh-zyee-oh-soh |
Your hard work will pay off | Il tuo duro lavoro sarà ripagato | eel too-oh doo-roh la-vo-roh sah-rah ree-pah-gah-toh |
You’re the best | Sei il/la migliore | say eel/lah meel-yor-eh |
I’m proud of you | Sono orgogliosa/o di te | soh-noh or-gohl-yoh-soh/sah dee teh |
You’ve earned it | Te lo sei meritato | teh loh say meh-ree-tah-toh |
The most common Italian compliments for a job well done include classics like Ottimo lavoro (Great job), Bel lavoro (Good job), Ben fatto (Well done), and the more casual Che bravo/a (Well done) and Grande (Great job), the latter bering slang reserved for informal situations and peers. These compliments are short, sweet, and incredibly effective, especially when accompanied by a friendly pat on the back.
Adding a personal touch by explaining why you’re praising them can really elevate your compliment game. For instance, Complimenti per la presentazione, è stata illuminante (Congratulations on the presentation, it was enlightening) or Ho visto che hai chiuso quel contratto. Complimenti, molto ben fatto! (I saw you closed that deal. Congratulations, very well done!) show that you’re paying attention and genuinely impressed by their work.
Looking to fuel their motivation even more? Throw in some encouraging phrases like Continua così! (Keep it up), Vedrai, il tuo duro lavoro sarà ripagato (Your hard work will pay off), Sono sicura/o che farai grandi cose (I’m sure you’ll do great things) for boosting morale. And don’t forget to highlight their talent with a simple Hai davvero talento (You’re really talented) or the more emphatic Hai un talento straordinario (You have extraordinary talent).
Let’s not forget those moments when the pressure’s on and things get tough. Again, a little encouragement can go a long way. Simple phrases like Forza (Come on), Credo in te (I believe in you) can be just the boost they need to keep going. And when they really knock it out of the park with their genius, creativity, or problem-solving prowess, shower them with compliments like Sei un genio! (You’re a genius!), Sei davvero in gamba (You’re really talented), and Hai superato te stesso/a (You have excelled yourself).
Last but not least, when it’s time to pop the prosecco and celebrate awards and achievements, you can’t go wrong with a classic Congratulazioni! (Congratulations!) which works in any situation. But if you want to add some extra emphasis, try Te lo sei meritato (You’ve earned it) or Sapevo che ci saresti riuscito/a (I knew you would succeed). These words of recognition will make the celebration even sweeter.
How to compliment someone on their appearance or clothing in Italian
Ever find yourself struck by someone’s impeccable style or radiant presence? You know the type – their outfit is on point, their confidence is contagious, and you can’t help but think, Che meraviglia! (What a wonder!).
Well, in Italy, this scenario is quite common, as Italians are renowned for their innate sense of style and trendsetting prowess. So, being able to compliment someone’s appearance or fashion choices in Italian can truly enhance your interactions and add a delightful touch to your social encounters.
Complimenting appearance and clothing in Italian | ||
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English | Italian | Pronunciation |
I love your style! | Adoro il tuo stile! | ah-doh-roh eel tu-oh stee-leh |
I love your shoes! | Adoro le tue scarpe! | ah-doh-roh leh tu-eh skahr-peh |
What a beautiful bag, where did you get it? | Che bella borsa, dove l’hai presa? | keh beh-lah bohr-sah, doh-veh lah-eei preh-sah |
What a cool outfit! | Che figata di outfit! | keh fee-gah-tah dee owt-fit |
What a style, you are always on top! | Che stile! Sei sempre top! | keh stee-leh! sem-preh al top! |
You look nice! | Come stai bene! | koh-meh stai beh-neh |
How good you look with these shoes! | Come ti stanno bene queste scarpe! | koh-meh tee stahhn-noh beh-neh kwesh-teh skahr-peh |
You’ve got style | Hai stile | aiee stee-leh |
I like how how you dress | Mi piace come ti vesti | mee pyah-cheh koh-meh tee veh-stee |
I like your new haircut | Mi piace il tuo nuovo taglio | mee pyah-cheh eel tu-oh nwoh-voh tah-lyoh |
This haircut/color really suits you | Questo taglio/colore ti dona | kweh-sto ta-lyo/ko-lo-reh tee doh-nah |
You wear your age well | Porti molto bene i tuoi anni | por-tee mol-toh beh-neh ee tu-oh ahn-nee |
This dress looks great on you | Questo vestito ti sta d’incanto/una favola | kweh-stoh veh-stee-toh tee stah dinn-kahn-toh /oo-nah fah-voh-lah |
This dress suits you perfectly | Questo vestito ti sta a pennello | kweh-stoh vehs-tee-toh tee stah ah pehn-nehl-loh |
You really have good taste | Hai davvero buon gusto | aiee dahv-veh-roh bwohn goo-stoh |
You are very elegant | Sei molto elegante | say mol-toh eh-leh-gahn-teh |
You’re always so chic | Sei sempre così chic | say sehm-preh koh-zee sheek |
You look fantastic | Stai benissimo | sty beh-nee-see-moh |
You look great | Stai da dio/Stai proprio bene/Ti trovo bene | sty dah dee-oh / sty proh-pree-oh beh-neh / tee troh-voh beh-neh |
You’re in great shape | Sei in forma | say een fohr-mah |
You look in great shape | Ti trovo in forma smagliante/in splendida forma | tee troh-voh een for-mah smah-lyahn-teh/een splen-dee-dah for-mah |
So, if you want to tell someone you think they’ve got awesome style and they’re nailing the whole fashion and beauty thing, phrases like Adoro il tuo stile (I love your style) or Mi piace come ti vesti (I like how you dress) are perfect icebreakers. For something fancier, you could say Sei sempre così chic (You’re always so chic) or Sei molto elegante (You’re very elegant). These kinds of compliments can really make someone’s day and boost their confidence (and mood towards you)!
For your pals or family, keeping it casual is key. Saying things like Stai proprio bene (You look great), Stai da dio (You look amazing) or Che figata di outfit (What a cool outfit) perfectly conveys your admiration. And using trendy phrases like Che stile, sempre al top (What a style, always on top) really show you’re up with the times.
Now, to focus on a specific piece of clothing, phrases like phrases such as Questo vestito ti sta d’incanto (This dress looks great on you), Questo vestito ti sta a pennello, (This dress suits you perfectly), or Come stai bene con quel vestito (How good you look with this dress) show that you’ve noticed the details and how well they look on the person wearing them. You can easily adapt this phrase for the specific item of clothing, for example Questa gonna ti sta d’incanto (This skirt looks great on you) or Questi jeans ti stanno una favola (Those jeans look great on you).
If someone has a new haircut, acknowledging it with phrases like Mi piace il tuo nuovo taglio (I like your new haircut), Questo colore/taglio ti dona (This color/cut really suits you) or Ti mette in risalto gli occhi (It makes your eyes pop) shows that you pay attention to the details and appreciate the effort they’ve put into their appearance.
When you haven’t seen someone for a while, a simple Ti trovo bene (You look good), Sei in forma (You’re in great shape), or Ti trovo in gran forma (You look great) is all you need to make them feel good.
Now, here’s the tricky part – complimenting someone based on their age. While a phrase like Porti molto bene i tuoi anni (You wear your age well) can be a genuine compliment in Italian to compliment someone’s genetics, especially if said when the person’s age pops up in the conversation, it can also be misinterpreted if said in isolation. So, it’s all down to the context.
How to compliment someone on their personality or lifestyle in Italian
Doesn’t it feel good to receive praise for our personality? Sure, compliments about our physical appearance are gratifying, but those that acknowledge our character traits delve into the core of who we are as individuals, affirming our uniqueness and the positive impact we can have on others.
The Italian language has a wide range of expressions that capture the essence of someone’s personality and way of life with remarkable precision and beauty. Here are some of the most common:
Complimenting someone’s personality in Italian | ||
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English | Italian | Pronunciation |
I love your sense of humor | Adoro il tuo senso dell’umorismo | ah-doh-roh eel tu-oh sehn-soh dehl oo-moh-reez-moh |
I love everything about you | Adoro tutto di te | ah-doh-roh toot-toh dee teh |
I admire your courage | Ammiro il tuo coraggio | ahm-mee-roh eel tu-oh koh-rah-joh |
I appreciate your honesty. | Apprezzo la tua sincerità | ah-prehz-tsoh lah tu-ha seen-cheh-ree-tah |
Time flies with you | Con te il tempo vola | kohn teh eel tem-poh voh-lah |
It’s a blast hanging out with you | È uno spasso stare con te | eh oo-noh spahs-soh stah-reh kohn teh |
You radiate positivity | Emani positività | eh-mah-nee poh-zee-tee-vee-tah |
You have a big heart | Hai un grande cuore | aiee oon grahn-deh kwoh-reh |
You have a way with words | Hai una bella parlantina | aiee uh-nah bel-lah par-lahn-tee-nah |
Your laugh is infectious | La tua risata è contagiosa | lah tuha ree-sah-tah eh kohn-tah-joh-sah |
You crack me up | Mi fai morire dal ridere | mee fy mo-ree-reh dahl ree-deh-reh |
You make me want to be a better person | Mi fai venire voglia di essere una persona migliore | mee fai veh-nee-reh voh-lyah dee ehs-seh-reh oo-nah pehr-soh-nah meel-yoh-reh |
No one is like you | Nessuno è come te | neh-soo-noh eh koh-meh teh |
You always surprise me | Non smetti mai di stupirmi | nohn smet-tee my dee stoo-peer-mee |
You are so sweet | Sei carinissimo/a | say kah-ree-nees-see-moh/mah |
You are so much fun | Sei così divertente | say koh-zee dee-vehr-tehn-teh |
You are so sweet | Sei così dolce | say koh-zee dohl-cheh |
You are so kind | Sei così gentile | say koh-zee jehn-tee-leh |
You are so smart | Sei così intelligente | say koh-zee een-tel-lee-jen-teh |
You are so considerate | Sei così premuroso/a | say koh-zee pray-moo-roh-soh/sah |
You are a beautiful person | Sei davvero una bella persona | say da-veh-roo uhnah beh-lah per-soh-nah |
You are a good girl/guy | Sei una brava ragazza/un bravo ragazzo | say uh-nah brah-vah rah-gah-tsah/oon brah-voh rah-gah-tsoh |
You are a beautiful person, inside and out. | Sei una bella persona, dentro e fuori | say uh-nah beh-lah per-soh-nah, dain-troh eh fwoh-ree |
You are an inspiration | Sei una fonte di ispirazione | say uh-nah fohn-tey dee ees-pee-rah-tsee-oh-neh |
You are a fantastic person | Sei una persona fantastica | say uh-nah pehr-soh-nah fahn-tahs-tee-kah |
You are a beautiful soul | Sei un’anima bella | say uh ah-nee-mah beh-lah |
You are such a thoughtful person | Sei proprio una persona squisita | say proh-pree-oh uh-nah pehr-soh-nah skwee-zee-tah |
You are strong | Sei forte | say fhor-teh |
You are so fun | Sei simpaticissimo/a | say seem-pah-tee-chee-see-moh/mah |
You are so much fun | Sei troppo divertente | say troh-poh dee-vehr-tehn-teh |
You are a golden guy/girl | Sei un ragazzo/una ragazza d’oro | say oon rah-gah-tsoh/uh-nah rah-gah-tsah daw-roh |
You are a force of nature | Sei una forza della natura | say uhnah fohr-tzah dehl-lah nah-too-rah |
You are a pure and simple girl | Sei una ragazza acqua e sapone | say oo-nah rah-gah-tsah ak-wah eh sah-poh-neh |
You are a true gentleman | Sei un vero gentiluomo | say oon veh-roh jen-teel-woh-moh |
You are one of a kind | Sei unico/a | say oo-nee-koh/kah |
Want to brighten someone’s day with compliments? Here’s an easy formula: “sei + così/molto/troppo + adjective.” It’s a simple yet effective way to acknowledge someone’s unique personality traits. Whether it’s recognizing their sense of humor with Sei troppo divertente (You’re too funny) or their thoughtfulness with Sei così premuroso/a (You’re so caring), these expressions celebrate what makes each person special. Just a heads up: adjectives ending in -e work for both feminine and masculine, but for all others, remember to adapt the ending to match the person’s gender.
For expressions dripping with pure goodness and warmth, try with Sei davvero una bella persona (You are truly a beautiful person) or Sei un’anima bella (You are a beautiful soul). And to spotlight qualities like kindness and a generous heart, phrases like Sei un ragazzo/una ragazza d’oro (You are a golden boy/girl) or Hai un grande cuore (You have a big heart) are heartwarming affirmations of their character.
Venturing into more tailored compliments, for men emanating charm and grace, there’s Sei un vero gentiluomo (You’re a true gentleman). For women, there’s the Italian saying and idiom, Sei una ragazza acqua e sapone (You’re a pure and simple girl), hinting at simplicity and innate allure, without makeup or embellishments.
Adding a sprinkle of romance to the mix, phrases such as Adoro tutto di te (I adore everything about you), Mi fai venire voglia di essere una persona migliore (You make me want to be a better person), or Con te il tempo vola (Time flies with you), all convey deep admiration and affection, leaving the recipient feeling cherished and valued.
How to compliment someone on something they have
Have you ever walked into a friend’s house and immediately fallen in love with a piece of furniture ? Or perhaps you’ve spotted someone wearing a pair of glasses that scream “I’m chic”? In such circumstances, knowing how to compliment someone on their possessions becomes a valuable skill, not only to discover where to find similar items but also to break the ice and introduce yourself.
So, the next time you’re enjoying your espresso in Rome and come across a fabulous bag or any other eye-catching possession, you’ll know exactly what to say to strike up a conversation – and perhaps even snag the name of the shop!
Complimenting someone’s possessions in Italian | ||
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English | Italian | Pronunciation |
Exquisite choice of decor | Complimenti per l’arredamento | kohm-plee-mehn-tee per lah-reh-dah-mehn-toh |
How cool is this bag | Che figata questa borsa | keh fee-gah-tah kwe-stah bohr-sah |
I love your glasses, can I ask you where you got them from? | Adoro i tuoi occhiali, posso chiederti dove li hai presi? | ah-doh-roh ee twoi ohk-kya-lee, pohs-soh kyee-der-tee doh-veh lee aiee preh-zee |
I love your bag, where did you buy it? | Mi piace la tua borsa, dove l’hai presa? | mee pya-che lah tu-ha bohr-sah, doh-veh laiee preh-sah |
I really like your new car, excellent choice | Mi piace un sacco la tua nuova macchina, ottima scelta | mee pya-che oon sak-koh la too-ah noo-woh-vah mahk-kee-nah, ot-te-ma shel-tah |
You have a gorgeous home | Hai una bellissima casa | ah-ee uhnah beh-lee-see-mah ka-sah |
Your bag is beautiful | La tua borsa è bellissima | lah tuha bohr-sah eh behl-lee-see-mah |
What a beautiful home | Che bella casa! | keh beh-lah ka-sah |
What a gorgeous painting | Che splendido quadro | keh splen-dee-doh kwah-droh |
Wow, what a beautiful car | Wow, che bella macchina | wow keh beh-lah mahk-kee-nah |
There are many options to compliment personal items in Italian. You could say, Adoro le tue scarpe (I love your shoes), Che bel vestito (That’s a nice dress), or Mi piace un sacco la tua borsa (I really like your bag). Among younger groups, you might hear, Che figata questa borsa (How cool is this bag). And if you’re curious where they got it from, just ask Posso chiederti dove l’hai preso/a? (Can I ask you where you get it from?) or be more direct with Dove l’hai comprato/a? (Where did you buy it?). It keeps the conversation going and shows you’re genuinely interested in their finds.
For a more formal compliment, you could say, Non ho potuto fare a meno di notare il tuo nuovo telefono (I couldn’t help but notice your new phone). This always adds a touch of sophistication while still conveying admiration.
Another common situation is stepping into someone’s home for the first time. In such a case, it’s natural to want to express admiration for the space. You might say, Che bella casa! (What a beautiful home!) or Hai una bellissima casa (You have a gorgeous home). Acknowledging their effort in decor, you could offer, Complimenti per l’arredamento (Exquisite choice of decor), or if something catches your eye, get specific with a phrase like Che splendido quadro! (What a gorgeous painting!).
How to respond to compliments in Italian
What if you’re the one receiving the compliment? Well, it’s always polite to respond in a way that shows your appreciation. However, knowing how to do so effectively is key, particularly if there’s some kind of flirtatious undertone, you’re at work, or you wish to reciprocate the kindness. Here are some ways to respond to compliments in Italian, ensuring you convey the right message:
Responding to compliments in Italian | ||
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English | Italian | Pronunciation |
Thank you | Grazie | grah-tsee-eh |
Thank you very much | Grazie mille | grah-tsee-eh meel-leh |
Thank you so much | Grazie infinite | grah-tsee-eh een-fee-nee-teh |
Thanks from the bottom of my heart | Grazie di cuore | grah-tsee-eh dee kwoh-reh |
Thank you, how kind | Grazie, che gentile | grah-tsee-eh, keh jehn-tee-leh |
Thanks, that’s too kind | Grazie, troppo gentile | grah-tsee-eh, troh-poh jehn-tee-leh |
Thank you, you are very kind | Grazie, gentilissimo/a | grah-tsee-eh, jehn-tee-leh-see-moh/mah |
Thank you, you are too kind | Grazie, sei troppo carino/a | grah-tsee-eh, say troh-poh kah-ree-noh/nah |
Thank you, it’s nice of you to say so | È carino da parte tua dirlo | grah-tsee, eh kah-ree-noh dah pahr-teh tuha deer-loh |
Come on, don’t exaggerate | Dai, non esagerare | die nohn eh-sah-jeh-rah-reh |
It’s so kind of you | È davvero gentile da parte tua | eh dah-veh-roh dah pahr-teh tuha |
Thank you, I love you too | Grazie, ti amo anch’io | grah-tsee-eh, tee ah-moh ahn-kee-oh |
Yes, I know, I’m too good | Sì lo so, sono troppo bravo/a | see loh soh, soh-noh troh-poh brah-voh/vah |
Thank you, It was a great team effort. | Grazie, è stato un bel lavoro di squadra | grah-tsee-eh, eh stah-toh oon behl lah-voh-roh dee skwah-drah |
Thank you, but I’m not interested | Grazie, ma non sono interessato/a | grah-tsee-eh, mah nohn soh-noh een-teh-reh-sah-toh/tah |
Thank you, your words flatter me | Grazie, le tue parole mi lusingano | grah-tsee-eh leh tuhe pah-roh-leh mee loo-seen-gah-noh |
I’m flattered | Sono lusingato/a | soh-noh loo-seen-gah-toh/tah |
You flatter me | Mi lusinghi | mee loo-seen-ghee |
Thank you, I really appreciate that | Grazie, lo apprezzo molto | grah-tsee-eh loh ah-prehz-zoh mohl-toh |
Thank you, that’s so nice of you to say | Grazie, mi fa piacere che tu lo dica | grah-tsee-eh, mee fah pee-ah-che-reh keh too loh dee-kah |
Thank you, I just did my job | Grazie, ho fatto solo il mio lavoro | grah-tsee-eh, oh fah-toh soh-loh eel me-oh lah-voh-roh |
Thank you, I must credit the whole team for this | Grazie, devo dare merito a tutta la squadra per questo | grah-tsee-eh, deh-voh dah-reh meh-ree-toh ah too-tah lah skwah-drah pehr kweh-stoh |
Thank you, I couldn’t have achieved this without your precious support | Grazie, non avrei potuto ottenere tutto questo senza il vostro prezioso supporto | grah-tsee-eh, nohn ahv-rayee po-too-toh oht-teh-ne-reh toot-toh kwe-stoh sehn-zah eel voh-stroh preh-tsee-oh soo-poor-toh |
Thanks, you too | Grazie, anche tu | grah-tsee-eh ahn-keh too |
Thank you, a compliment from you is worth a dozen from anyone else | Grazie, un complimento detto da te vale doppio | grah-tsee-eh un kohm-plee-mehn-toh deh-toh dah teh vah-leh dohp-pyoh |
Thank you, I’m glad you like it | Grazie, mi fa piacere che ti piaccia | grah-tsee-eh mee fah pee-ah-che-reh keh tee pya-chah |
Thank you for the compliment | Ti ringrazio per il complimento | tee reen-grah-tsee-oh pehr eel kohm-plee-men-toh |
The classic response to compliments in Italian is always Grazie (Thank you), and you can spice it up with variants like Grazie mille (Thanks a lot), Grazie infinite (Thank you so much), or Grazie di cuore (Thanks from the bottom of my heart). Also, adding the person’s name after Grazie adds a personal touch, such as Grazie, Maria (Thank you, Maria).
To convey deeper appreciation, you can add just about anything, depending on the context and the kind of feeling you want to express. Things like Che gentile (How kind), È davvero gentile da parte tua (That’s really kind of you), or Lo apprezzo molto (I really appreciate that) work well. For a touch of flattery, you could respond with Le tue parole mi lusingano (your words flatter me) or Mi fa piacere che tu lo dica (it makes me happy that you say that).
Depending on the compliment, it’s nice to reciprocate with expressions like Grazie anche tu (Thank you, you too) or acknowledge the other person’s qualities with Grazie, anche tu sei molto simpatico/a (Thank you, you’re very nice too).
Injecting humor into your response can also be delightful. For example, you could playfully accept the compliment with Sì lo so, sono troppo bravo/a (Yes, I know, I’m too good) or Grazie, ti amo anch’io (Thank you, I love you too – perfect for being playful with your better half). If you want to play it cool, you can say Dai, non esagerare (Come on, don’t exaggerate).
In professional settings, acknowledging teamwork is essential. È stato un bel lavoro di squadra (It was a great team effort) or Devo dare merito a tutta la squadra per questo (I must credit the whole team for this), or Non avrei potuto ottenere tutto questo senza il vostro prezioso supporto (I couldn’t have achieved this without your precious support). Modesty is also appreciated, so you can also respond with Grazie, ho fatto solo il mio lavoro (Thank you, I just did my job).
And what if you receive a flirty compliment? If you’re interested, you could play along with Mi stai chiedendo di uscire? (Are you asking me out?) or Ci stai provando con me? (Are you hitting on me?). If not, a polite Grazie, ma non sono interessato/a (Thank you, but I’m not interested) will suffice.
The do’s and don’ts of complimenting someone in Italian
Complimenting someone in Italian can be a delightful experience that brightens their day, but it requires finesse to avoid any unintended awkwardness. Here are some helpful tips to help you navigate the do’s and don’ts of complimenting in Italian with grace:
Dos
- Be authentic: Skip the pre-made phrases and generic praises. Italians, renowned for their warmth, relish genuine praise that resonates.
- Get specific: Dive deep and highlight the little things that make someone shine. Whether it’s their killer sense of style or infectious laugh, details matter and show you truly value the person’s qualities.
- Mind the titles: In Italy, titles hold significant weight. Addressing professionals as Dottore (doctor), Professore (professor) or Ingegnere (engineers) based on their occupation is a way to show respect. However, don’t add the name onto the title. Instead, opt for phrases like Complimenti, Professore (Compliments, professor) or Ottimo lavoro, Ingegnere (Great job, engineer). Note that, in written communication, professional titles tend to be capitalized when referring to a specific individual, although this is not mandatory. For example, you could write Buonasera, Dottore (Good evening, Doctor) but Bisogna studiare molto per diventare dottore (One must study hard to become a doctor).
- Celebrate the country: Italians take immense pride in their country’s rich cultural heritage and natural landscapes. So, if you want to break the ice and make an Italian smile, just give them props for all the amazing things their country has. They’ll totally appreciate it!
- Keep it simple: When praising someone, whether its appearance, personality or possessions, stick to straightforward compliments without overdoing it or making backhanded remarks. For example, say Sei bellissima (You are beautiful) but don’t add remarks like più del solito (more than usual).
Don’ts
- Don’t exaggerate: Avoid overwhelming the recipient with too many compliments, plus too much praise can come across as insincere or overwhelming. Remember the Italian saying – il troppo stroppia (too much of a good thing can spoil it).
- Don’t fish for praise: Let compliments flow naturally, without resorting to sneaky tactics like saying Ho fatto schifo (I sucked) or Sono un disastro (I’m a disaster) waiting for the other person to say something.
- Don’t be indelicate: Avoid phrases that could be misconstrued as backhanded insults. Keep it classy and steer clear of anything that could make someone feel less than fabulous with expressions like Sei ancora in forma per avere sessant’anni (For a sixty-year-old, you’re still in great shape!) or Non sembri neanche tu in questa foto (You don’t even seem like yourself in this photo) – in the wrong contexts, they will come across as a subtle insult.
- Don’t overstep boundaries: Save your compliments for people you know. Showering compliments on strangers or individuals with whom you have a significant age gap or power dynamic might raise a few eyebrows – and not in a good way.
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